Posted in Q&A on Feb 9th, 2011
Kelley, after a long struggle the man I’ve been always attached to finally made the big step – he left his family and we are now officially a couple. I am now worried that he will treat me as he did his ex-wife. He is very flirty and needs lots of attention. I have started [...]
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Posted in Q&A on Feb 2nd, 2011
Kelley, I am very impressed by your thoughtful and interesting answers to readers’ questions. I’ve done a lot of different kinds of spiritual work that has helped me tremendously with personal questions and dilemmas. My spiritual work utilizes meditation and guide(s), which is why I responded deeply to your insight. I have a nagging mystery [...]
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Posted in Q&A on Jan 19th, 2011
Kelley, I’m a single mom of six-year-old twin girls, whom I adore. Lately I’ve been feeling overwhelmed with single motherhood. Their father is minimally involved, emotionally and financially. I’m feeling the brunt of parenthood, which is especially difficult for me at the holidays. I am on a spiritual journey which is comforting but I also [...]
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Posted in Q&A on Oct 7th, 2010
After years of being dishonest with myself, I am finally trying to walk a spiritual path. I would like to know if I will overcome the self-destructive tendencies I have honed to perfection, and finally find a partner and wonderful father for my children. I am having the same relationship issues I had 14 years [...]
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Posted in Q&A on Jun 7th, 2010
Kelley, After 10 months of sadness and grief, I am finally able to start cutting ties with an old love. I’m currently not working and I have been working on developing my spirituality and gifts. Please advise what you see for me. Thank you, Shelley. Thanks for writing, Shelley. Initially, I see you in a [...]
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Posted in Q&A on Nov 23rd, 2009
Kelley, My husband has PTSD and major clinical depression. I’ve been married to him for 15 years. It takes a lot of my energy just to live with him. Living without him would be hard, too, especially financially. What do I do? L Thank you for your note, L. All signs point to observe. If [...]
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Posted in Q&A on Sep 15th, 2009
Thanks for your help Kelley. Why do my husband and I have such a hard time together? Divorce is not an option. Thanks, L. Thanks for your note, L. When I rise up into soul space and look down at how the two of you are energetically connected that life force is very thin and [...]
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Posted in Essay, Q&A on Sep 3rd, 2009
“The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.” ~Pema Chödrön, The Wisdom of No Escape and the Path of Loving Kindness” I recently featured Chödrön’s quote as my Twitter update while I was penning a response to a client regarding soulmates. The two seemed so related that the quote [...]
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Posted in Q&A on Aug 26th, 2009
Hi Kelley, My husband and I have been apart since 2004 and I still have no resolution. We have not talked other than him telling me that he will make my life a living hell, and he has done so. He is planning on marrying the woman he left me for in 2010. I still [...]
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